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If you cannot find the answer to your question feel free to post your own question to our forums. This, has to be beyond a shadow of a doubt the biggest and most debated question surrounding the topic of Polyamory in general. And because of that there is no easy answer.

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If one were to choose a very plain and dictionary definition of the word they may see the following:. But we, as a human feeling and thinking species, cannot be bound by a simple definition.

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Especially when it comes to matters of the heart. So, pulling from the varied responses from our diverse membership we would like to provide a broader description of what Polyamory may be. One core belief about Polyamory, that all could agree on, would be the freedom of choice. The freedom to choose how your heart should be allowed to love. Whether that be one person or one hundred. Now, of course we may love our friends and our family, but this is where Polyamory takes a different path.

In Polyamory you choose to be sexually intimate with those you love. In a perfect Polyamorous world all parties involved are well informed, fully consenting, and open minded individuals. However, that is not always the case. There are times when the scale is unbalanced, and that is when problems can arise and destroy the "perfect" Poly dream. That, is not something to go into detail here, but can be covered in another FAQ or on the forums.

Polyamory is not a means to score notches in a bedpost, nor is it an excuse to sleep around if you are not satisfied with your current lover. Polyamory is about love and making a meaningful emotional connection. Polyamory is about the heart's capacity to love many, and love well.

Polyamory is about honesty, with yourself and others. Polyamory comes in many forms, and what is right for you may not be right for another. But what's important is what matters to you.

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As Willaim Shakespeare said, "To thine own self always be true. Compersion can hit you right in the heart with its power, or it can sneak up on you and make you giggle. It can turn you on powerfully even if, and maybe especially if, you're also feeling jealous or enviousor it can make you feel protective and tender. It's just a feeling. Males and females have evolved differing mating strategies, related to the great difference in the investment of each gender in reproduction.

Humans as a species are classified by biologists as "mildly polygynous" based on our sexual dimorphism [the difference in average sizes and appearance between males and females] and our behaviors [males tend to be more physically aggressive, and compete for mating opportunities with females]. In monogamous societies like ours, the richest, most successful men often keep mistresses in addition to their wives.

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The reverse, polyandry, is extremely rare among humans. This is because typically males are sexually jealous of their female partners due to a fear of being cuckolded, and of raising another male's offspring. Men tend to crave sexual variety for its own sake to a much greater degree than women, and to make up the vast majority of sexual deviants [pedophiles, etc]. Given this basic difference between male and female sexual strategies, it is not surprising that many men in monogamous relationships would be interested in pursuing swinging or the polygynous type of polyamory.

In the general populace, many, many men have a fantasy of having sex with two or more women at the same time. The only difference between men in those monogamous couples and the men in the polyamorous couples who are seeking specifically the "HBB" is that the latter are lucky enough to have a female partner that will LET them try to fulfill the threesome fantasy.

Owing to greater female equality and the possibility of divorce, women in the Modern West have the choice of stopping their male partner from sleeping around if they know about it, so often it is the woman who gets to make the final decision as to whether or not a monogamous couple tries polyamory. The woman in a poly couple looking for an "HBB" is often bisexual, or sometimes is a closeted lesbian, and sees the poly option as an opportunity to explore that side of her sexuality.

Or, sometimes she is straight, and just isn't prone to jealousy. The surprise is not that so many poly couples are of this polygynous type, but that not more of them are. Just like the religious preferences of the poly community don't exactly match those of the general populace, but are tilted more to the progressive end of the spectrum, perhaps poly people tend to be less jealous than the average [they would almost have to be, wouldn't they? This website uses cookies to track how you interact with the site and to enhance the member experience.

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